Lil' J Lost His Jam - Paperbackby Tammy Helena Kennedy (Author) Lil' J Lost His Jam is a therapeutic resource for therapists, parents, and safe adults who want to help male victims of sexual abuse heal. The story is a typical example of molestation and illustrates the grooming process an abuser uses to manipulate his her victims. After the abuse, Lil' J not only loses his musical spark; he also believes a lot of lies. Thankfully, the King of Music sends his messengers, DJ Rap a Lot